Found a new therapist. Met with her last night and we talked for an hour and a half. It was wonderful because she didn’t fall asleep, but I can tell she struggles with hearing. It’s okay, she kept up with me. We talked about my family and how beyond dysfunctional they are and the pain… Continue reading Why hanging on is comfortable
Let's remember It is the end of January and we have survived the start of "cupping" season. If you are not aware of that term means, please allow me to explain. When you are trying to find a love match during the holidays so your family doesn't think you are going to end up alone… Continue reading Countdown to Valentines Day
Sometimes this all one needs When you are single what is the one thing you miss? Is it knowing you have someone around, is it the adorable ways you two communicate, or is it all just about the intimacy of everything that comes with being a relationship with someone. If you have been following this… Continue reading Emotional Needs
Just be there Sitting here in the airport waiting to board to go home I have little daydreaming moments that someone I want will be at the airport to pick me up and he will be happy to see me, but then again reality sets in. Not a priority behind is everyday life, even though… Continue reading Why….why?
Why is this an issue with us? They say communication is the key to a great relationship. I swear this is where I struggle. For some reason this is the biggest weakness that I can never get through to anyone. Anyone struggle with this situation? I’m sure I’m not the only one who have this… Continue reading Communication Struggle..Why?
My dream life I have been thinking instead of being so hurt and angry with love, and not having love in my life. Maybe it’s time to move past all of that and to look past Loves issues. Apparently it really isn’t me, it’s Loves issues and he fails to even accept or acknowledge anything… Continue reading Looking Past Loves Faults
Me demanding? Uh…. I had a conversation with my cousin last night and she has informed me that I am too demanding. I expect too much from a guy because deep down inside myself I demand too much from myself as a woman, especially an educated woman. I am wondering why that is? She said… Continue reading Being too Much is Bad
Pick the right person When life becomes a struggle don’t you wish you had someone to share it with? I know I do. When I feel like I can’t write one more paper, take one more test, do one last presentation I need that person to tell me to, “Get up and get it done.… Continue reading Struggling in Love..Share your Pain with Me.
Just love it’s simple & complicated How do people make falling in love look so easy? Ever wonder about that? I know I do. We are not perfect people, but man when your single it SUCKS especially for women. Men not so much. When two people meet things just mesh well, right? Isn’t that how… Continue reading Why…
Look my way I often wonder what it is about a woman a man will stop in his tracks to see her, get to know her, and wants to be with her. I know men don’t look my way. If they do I am surprised, and amazed that they know I am alive. When my… Continue reading Wanting to be noticed