Do you ever go on other sites and check out their positive boards and postings to make yourself feel better about your life? Yes, I am referring to Pinterest. They have the most amazing things on their site. Trust me I’ve planned my dream life from that site. Anyway as I navigate my daily life… Continue reading Pro Single Affirmations
When you know a man has walked away, you can feel it. You can sense it and honestly it was something that you knew had to come, but it still doesn't make it any easier, it makes life more complicated because this was something that you just didn't imagine happening right now, especially now when… Continue reading He’s walked away
I know I've hit a wall in my life where I am getting so frustrated with men and their constant need to flirt. I have zero problems flirting with men who are 100% single, but if you are in a relationship at the start, middle, or even towards the end, and also married please don't… Continue reading Enough is Enough
Sometimes this all one needs When you are single what is the one thing you miss? Is it knowing you have someone around, is it the adorable ways you two communicate, or is it all just about the intimacy of everything that comes with being a relationship with someone. If you have been following this… Continue reading Emotional Needs
Check out my podcast, Single in KC, on Anchor! https://anchor.fm/jennifer-pantoja Welcome to being able to hear my voice. Hopefully some of you guys will listen and if anyone has any questions please let me know.
When you really need to understand something and yourself. I wanted to change this blog up, change the way I write things. I feel like there are times when we really don't know ourselves enough to see that when we learn how to be alone and stop seeing it as a negative thing, then and… Continue reading Experience Single Life
Uh…excuse me!? I’ve done some serious reflection of myself and my issues when it comes to me, my life, and my mental health. I found that I’m starting to be un phased by the knowledge that I will be single for the rest of my life. I have no clue how love works, what it… Continue reading Staying Single….
How much more? You often know as you get older that you will constantly deal with some form of disappointment and heartache. The problem is sometimes you just never see it, don’t want to acknowledge it, or even at times accept it. Why do we lean or keep things in our lives that bring us… Continue reading Heartache and Disappointment
I’m sad, but happy for everyone else. I love seeing my friends happy and their lives fulfilled, but when it comes to my life and the hurt in my life it’s just something I have to bury deep in something or some where that will never see the light of day. My life is full… Continue reading Happiness and Sadness together.
I’m 40, what’s next? I’m facing my 40’s single and alone. Yes, I have family. Yes, I FINALLY have my career. Yes, I am working towards getting out of debt but where is my love story? That’s the one thing in my life that has failed to come through for me. Why is that? I… Continue reading 40, single, focused, and…..