I've often wondered how to do things anymore with another person based on nothing but sex. I mean I did that in my mid twenties, how do you do it in your late thirties? Is it seen as something that is a bad choice when you take control of your life like that? or is… Continue reading Can you own your sexuality?
Today is supposed to be a day full of "love" it's supposed to be a sweet, romantic, fun, whatever kind of day for you and someone special. I've always hated this time of year because I've never had a Valentines Day that was amazing, perfect, or anything. Allow me to explain...... Relationship number one, he… Continue reading Valentines Day = Pure Hatred
Do you ever notice how the concept of men and women communicating has changed? I mean the idea of technology was the best thing ever, but it has added a lot of hidden meaning. It is now up to the person sending, receiving, and reading to fully understand what is being said. I have really… Continue reading Men and Women = different forms of hearing
So this topic came to mind today when I was talking to a member at the gym. A grown 37 year old man is trying out the tanning bed for the first time. I looked at him, and asked "Why?" His reply was because of this girl he's "talking to" likes to tan, so she… Continue reading Fitting in
I think I am currently experiencing the stage of withdraw from a relationship. I am not crying anymore, over all of that because I know my heart took a risk, and it was shot down. The feeling of withdraw comes in different forms for people. You know what they are, food, drinks, sex, whatever it… Continue reading Withdraw….
Sitting here in my office (nothing really to do), I sometimes wonder if it is possible to give someone too many chances? What would your number be? I've never really given anyone a second chance, let alone a third chance, or more. In my past all my relationships ended, they ended for reasons that were… Continue reading Would you?
Having good days and bad days come with trying to heal your heart when it has been broken. That is something I sometimes wish there was some form of instructional book telling you how to get over it, how to heal, but then again it usually is best to just leave it alone and not… Continue reading Fairy Tale vs. Real Life
I often wonder if moving on to someone new after a heartbreak is too soon? I'm dealing with the possibility of seeing someone new. I'm completely nervous. I've never ended something, and started seeing someone new. It isn't me. I feel like my heart needs a "grieving" period. Doesn't yours? maybe it is just me… Continue reading Too soon?
There are moments in ones life where wanting to be held is needed. I am dealing with a situation where I am not sure how to feel, all I desire is to be wrapped up in you. I'm not able to reach out to you, or even reach for you, because you decided that my… Continue reading Hugs
Ever wonder why things happen in your life the way the do? If you follow this blog, and read all my things, then you are fully aware that I do. I mean I really do. I often wonder why some people are great at relationships, or find it easy to meet new people, or how… Continue reading Why?