Do you ever think about your past relationships? Do you sit back and wonder if they were ever judging you based on what you have not done like them? Like if they had lived your life they would have done things differently, why didn't you do it like this or like that? I sometimes think… Continue reading Judgmental Relationships: Them or In our Head?
Have you ever looked at two people and wondered "How are those two together?" I sometimes wonder about that myself. It's like one of them is the "pretty, successful, and far more put together" while the other one is the "hot-mess". I mean we are seeing many of them all through out the world now,… Continue reading Odd Couples
Looking back at things in my life I see where I've made improvements, changes, and being able to let go or realize that you've been given a special gift. Do you ever wonder if a former lover in your past thinks of you? Naturally you hope its that one that was the best one you've… Continue reading Reflections…
So I've recently realized that there are a lot of people who can cause a lot of drama on their own and eventually bring that into a relationship that is between two people. I've never once had that situation before in my life until recently. It is a whole new sensation, and really experience. I… Continue reading Outside Influences
Do you ever look at your life and see all the good and all the bad? I mean really take stock and inventory of who you are as a person, and where you went wrong in all areas of your life? Do you mark those as life lessons or reasons to make changes so that… Continue reading Reflection……again x4
I just read an interesting article about men and how they fall in love especially if they are "Nice Guys". It was talking about how men who are the nice ones actually fall in love in so many different ways, either too fast, too hard, and or comes with relationship baggage that they have not… Continue reading Men Falling in Love
I often wonder which is worse, Good Love? or Bad Love? both can leave a mark on your heart and mind in their own way, right? I often think that Bad Love leaves a bigger mark on someone, because it's harder to break those old habits, defense mechanisms, coping capabilities, and more. I mean it's… Continue reading Good and Bad Love….which is worse?
When you meet someone knew you laugh, smile, flirt, but if you don't feel those connections or any level of chemistry then there is no point in moving forward with them, right? I've often thought at this because I'm very suspicious of anyone new in my life, especially a guy. I always watch my back… Continue reading Hopeful Changes
Do you think two people can work things out when outside influences have effected who they are? Is it possible to be strong enough to overcome all of it, or does it just go away like it never existed? How do you protect what you value so much, and hold so dear to your heart,… Continue reading Working It Out
Do you give your partner the Silent Treatment? Do you do it on purpose or is it your protection mechanism? Is it a relationship trait that you just can't break? I ask because I'm a talker. I will talk my way through anything, but I will also listen because it is important. The crap part… Continue reading The Silent Treatment