Thinking of so much. I look at my life so often and reevaluate so much. My accomplishments to my failures. Naturally my failures show more than my actual accomplishments. Human nature, right? I’m once again looking at myself in the mirror and wonder if I’ve held onto someone for far too long because it’s comfortable.… Continue reading Holding onto what’s comfortable
Category: Relationships
Who are you?
Do you know who you are? I mean truly know who you are. What you stand for? What you will or will not accept in your daily life? I ask these questions because we know and understand them in our daily life, especially in our careers and education, but when it comes to relationships of… Continue reading Who are you?
I don’t ever want to fall in Love
Photo by Ivan Samkov on Pexels.com Sitting in my therapy session on Tuesday night it was evident that I have no desire to ever be in a relationship ever again. I said it because it is how I feel. My life is so crazy that trying to date, or attempt dating in my current situation… Continue reading I don’t ever want to fall in Love
Redefining Love. New Eyes
"Elsa Dutton" from 1883 I have been watching a new show on Paramount Plus called 1883. This story is the story of how the Dutton Family began from Yellowstone. The whole series is so beautiful and fantastic. I recommend you watch both shows. The reason why I am writing this is particular post because I… Continue reading Redefining Love. New Eyes
Countdown to Valentines Day
Let's remember It is the end of January and we have survived the start of "cupping" season. If you are not aware of that term means, please allow me to explain. When you are trying to find a love match during the holidays so your family doesn't think you are going to end up alone… Continue reading Countdown to Valentines Day
Wanting to feel worthy
When does this feeling change? How does one start to feel worthy? Worthy of their lives, worthy of their family, friends, and worthy of finding love? I’ve seen too many times where I beat myself up in so many ways. The goal has been to stop beating myself up over and over again for things… Continue reading Wanting to feel worthy
My Relationship Goals
Outsiders not needed, just us doing it our way I always write about wanting to be in love and be in a relationship, but in my own way. I am wondering if it’s even possible. I recently read an article, “We’ve been together 23 years and never lived together. Here’s why it works.” By Sharon… Continue reading My Relationship Goals
Looking for Love…What is it?
I look at my life and often wonder do I really know what love is? What real love is? I know we often talk about that, "Can't eat, can't sleep, world series" kind of feeling that was described in a movie once, but when you watch movies, read books, and see other couples around you… Continue reading Looking for Love…What is it?
Pro Single Affirmations
Do you ever go on other sites and check out their positive boards and postings to make yourself feel better about your life? Yes, I am referring to Pinterest. They have the most amazing things on their site. Trust me I’ve planned my dream life from that site. Anyway as I navigate my daily life… Continue reading Pro Single Affirmations
He’s walked away
When you know a man has walked away, you can feel it. You can sense it and honestly it was something that you knew had to come, but it still doesn't make it any easier, it makes life more complicated because this was something that you just didn't imagine happening right now, especially now when… Continue reading He’s walked away
Thoughts and Views from Kansas 🌻 