When you look inside Tonight was a deep serious conversation with one of my sisters, my step-sister that I am closer to than the rest. Anyway we had a long talk about emotional trauma and emotional issues that we dealt with as little girls that we didn’t even realize until we reached adulthood. Sad I… Continue reading Real Issues
Category: Real Life
Understanding your worth
When you are worth something...You hope Ever wonder why when you find the right guy who fits you, your personality, and calms you down mentally, emotionally, physically, and even spiritually. What is it about them that will not commit to you? I know I can find a f*k “boy” whenever I need one, then again… Continue reading Understanding your worth
Judgmental Relationships: Them or In our Head?
Do you ever think about your past relationships? Do you sit back and wonder if they were ever judging you based on what you have not done like them? Like if they had lived your life they would have done things differently, why didn't you do it like this or like that? I sometimes think… Continue reading Judgmental Relationships: Them or In our Head?
Outside Influences
So I've recently realized that there are a lot of people who can cause a lot of drama on their own and eventually bring that into a relationship that is between two people. I've never once had that situation before in my life until recently. It is a whole new sensation, and really experience. I… Continue reading Outside Influences
Reflection……again x4
Do you ever look at your life and see all the good and all the bad? I mean really take stock and inventory of who you are as a person, and where you went wrong in all areas of your life? Do you mark those as life lessons or reasons to make changes so that… Continue reading Reflection……again x4
Year End or New Year Resolutions
Do you set yourself Resolutions or Goals for the New Year? Do you go over them and check them off the list as you move forward every single month? I have a few goals every year, but never quit drinking, I don't drink that much for it to be an issue. I don't smoke so… Continue reading Year End or New Year Resolutions
Good and Bad Love….which is worse?
I often wonder which is worse, Good Love? or Bad Love? both can leave a mark on your heart and mind in their own way, right? I often think that Bad Love leaves a bigger mark on someone, because it's harder to break those old habits, defense mechanisms, coping capabilities, and more. I mean it's… Continue reading Good and Bad Love….which is worse?
Working It Out
Do you think two people can work things out when outside influences have effected who they are? Is it possible to be strong enough to overcome all of it, or does it just go away like it never existed? How do you protect what you value so much, and hold so dear to your heart,… Continue reading Working It Out
The Silent Treatment
Do you give your partner the Silent Treatment? Do you do it on purpose or is it your protection mechanism? Is it a relationship trait that you just can't break? I ask because I'm a talker. I will talk my way through anything, but I will also listen because it is important. The crap part… Continue reading The Silent Treatment
Greener Side
Do you really know what you want in a partner? What about a relationship? Is this something that you've really sat down, had a glass of good wine or beer and made a list of things just for yourself? We often say, "The grass isn't always greener on the other side." but what is that… Continue reading Greener Side
