Thoughts and Views from Kansas 🌻
Insightful writing that shows truth, and no hold bars kind of life
I often think only lucky people were happy, that their lives made so much sense, and the rest of us were just suckers for darkness. I can tell you now that is all a lie! I was so miserable in 2018, I mean my life sucked, and working for a company that was just horrible,… Continue reading Happiness….is it possible?
Happy New Year to all my amazing followers! I am so glad you have been on this amazing up and down journey of my life. I hope that you all have enjoyed what I've written, some have been amazing as posting comments and hitting that like button. If you have any friends that would be… Continue reading Happy New Year….New You or New Life?
When it comes to life we are told we need to forgive someone who has done us wrong, that way we can feel free from the pain and anger. Does that count in relationships? Do you hold onto it? I've gotten better with the ideas of forgiving men when it comes to specific things. The… Continue reading Learning to Forgive….possible?
I often wonder what myself worth is as a person more so than what it is in a relationship. Do you do that? Are you someone who looks at another person's self worth and grades them on a scale of 0-100? The reason I ask this question is because I was recently reminded that people… Continue reading Self Worth…..What’s it to you?
I was recently watching a video of the relationship advice guy, Matthew Hussey. When he talks to women about how men are, and it all makes sense. I recommend him completely. The most recent video I watched, while at home under the covers and a ton of tissue paper around me, was about finding that… Continue reading Relationship Balances……Is it possible?
Do you ever wonder why we set life rules, but never set relationship rules? Are you one of those people who do that? I try to set rules for my life, as goals to obtain, but naturally I fall short on a lot of them. I noticed recently after talking to someone that we never… Continue reading Setting Relationship Rules
Ever wonder why people turn into ten year olds and start opening their mouths to tell on you? Why is anything that you are doing affect them? I honestly have no idea, I don't tattle on anyone. It isn't my way of being better than anyone, or trying to make them look bad to others.… Continue reading Tattle Tales and Put Downs
How do you look for inner peace? I ask this because I was listening to the radio this morning and they were talking about marriage, a lady called in and made a comment that resinated with me, "If you aren't happy with being single, then you will never be happy in marriage." I sat back… Continue reading Finding Inner Peace
I often wonder if it is seen as a good thing to see that men are single? Do some want to be like that because of bad past relationships? We all know relationships are a lot of work, and meeting the right person is a total crap shoot. However, I often wonder why is it… Continue reading Single Men…good idea or bad?
When did it become socially appropriate to shame women for choices that they have made in their lives? Who gave someone the authority to do that? I am fully aware that my life doesn't look like much to others, and at times myself, but honestly WHO CARES?!?!? Why does a woman at 37 years get… Continue reading Stop Shaming Women
