Do you ever think about your past relationships? Do you sit back and wonder if they were ever judging you based on what you have not done like them? Like if they had lived your life they would have done things differently, why didn't you do it like this or like that? I sometimes think… Continue reading Judgmental Relationships: Them or In our Head?

So I've recently realized that there are a lot of people who can cause a lot of drama on their own and eventually bring that into a relationship that is between two people. I've never once had that situation before in my life until recently. It is a whole new sensation, and really experience. I… Continue reading Outside Influences

Do you ever look at your life and see all the good and all the bad? I mean really take stock and inventory of who you are as a person, and where you went wrong in all areas of your life? Do you mark those as life lessons or reasons to make changes so that… Continue reading Reflection……again x4

I often wonder which is worse, Good Love? or Bad Love? both can leave a mark on your heart and mind in their own way, right? I often think that Bad Love leaves a bigger mark on someone, because it's harder to break those old habits, defense mechanisms, coping capabilities, and more. I mean it's… Continue reading Good and Bad Love….which is worse?

Do you think two people can work things out when outside influences have effected who they are? Is it possible to be strong enough to overcome all of it, or does it just go away like it never existed? How do you protect what you value so much, and hold so dear to your heart,… Continue reading Working It Out

Do you give your partner the Silent Treatment? Do you do it on purpose or is it your protection mechanism? Is it a relationship trait that you just can't break? I ask because I'm a talker. I will talk my way through anything, but I will also listen because it is important. The crap part… Continue reading The Silent Treatment

Do you really know what you want in a partner? What about a relationship? Is this something that you've really sat down, had a glass of good wine or beer and made a list of things just for yourself? We often say, "The grass isn't always greener on the other side." but what is that… Continue reading Greener Side

What do you do with your relationship when one of you has depression? Do you leave that person alone to deal with it? Do you try to help them get through it? Do you help them find someone to talk to while they work through it all? When you are not the problem of their… Continue reading Relationship Depression…one has it, the other doesn’t.