When does this feeling change? How does one start to feel worthy? Worthy of their lives, worthy of their family, friends, and worthy of finding love? I’ve seen too many times where I beat myself up in so many ways. The goal has been to stop beating myself up over and over again for things… Continue reading Wanting to feel worthy
Category: Real Life
Original Heartbreak
Understanding how it began This year will be a year of reflection and real heart realizations that must happen. I often wonder where, how, and why my heartbreak began. It took some time, but it truly goes back to my parents. Please understand I am not blaming them for a crappy childhood, but I put… Continue reading Original Heartbreak
2021 Gone…Now 2022
Accepting life’s destiny Now that we have said “Goodbye” to 2021, we now wrap our minds around this New Year of 2022 and all the possibilities that it can bring. Unfortunately, for many of us we have learned these past few years that we need to walk into this year with caution and a sense… Continue reading 2021 Gone…Now 2022
Pro Single Affirmations
Do you ever go on other sites and check out their positive boards and postings to make yourself feel better about your life? Yes, I am referring to Pinterest. They have the most amazing things on their site. Trust me I’ve planned my dream life from that site. Anyway as I navigate my daily life… Continue reading Pro Single Affirmations
Enough is Enough
I know I've hit a wall in my life where I am getting so frustrated with men and their constant need to flirt. I have zero problems flirting with men who are 100% single, but if you are in a relationship at the start, middle, or even towards the end, and also married please don't… Continue reading Enough is Enough
New Podcast!
Check out my podcast, Single in KC, on Anchor! https://anchor.fm/jennifer-pantoja Welcome to being able to hear my voice. Hopefully some of you guys will listen and if anyone has any questions please let me know.
Experience Single Life
When you really need to understand something and yourself. I wanted to change this blog up, change the way I write things. I feel like there are times when we really don't know ourselves enough to see that when we learn how to be alone and stop seeing it as a negative thing, then and… Continue reading Experience Single Life
Staying Single….
Uh…excuse me!? I’ve done some serious reflection of myself and my issues when it comes to me, my life, and my mental health. I found that I’m starting to be un phased by the knowledge that I will be single for the rest of my life. I have no clue how love works, what it… Continue reading Staying Single….
Heartache and Disappointment
How much more? You often know as you get older that you will constantly deal with some form of disappointment and heartache. The problem is sometimes you just never see it, don’t want to acknowledge it, or even at times accept it. Why do we lean or keep things in our lives that bring us… Continue reading Heartache and Disappointment
Happiness and Sadness together.
I’m sad, but happy for everyone else. I love seeing my friends happy and their lives fulfilled, but when it comes to my life and the hurt in my life it’s just something I have to bury deep in something or some where that will never see the light of day. My life is full… Continue reading Happiness and Sadness together.
Thoughts and Views from Kansas 🌻 