Do you ever go through those thoughts in your head and try to understand what is going on through someone else's brain? You know you've put yourself out there in black and white, you never admit that your are perfect, and you are honest about your failures. I don't claim to be perfect, that isn't… Continue reading Why?????

My cousin got married today. It's the 2nd marriage for the both of them. I love how they get through the vows, ring exchange, and so on. It's a beautiful thing. Then we get to the reception. Food, drinks, dancing, laughter and more........buuuuuuttt...the uncomfortable portion of the wedding comes...the tossing of the bouquet. I am… Continue reading Marriage………….uhhhhh

I am asking this question because I spoke with my sister after work about what it's like to date a guy who is older than I am. She normally never asks me this because after her last failed relationship she decided she was going to take a break. I asked her, "Why?"; she said, "Well… Continue reading Dating Age…is there a real number? 🤔

Do you ever think that if a woman takes control of a relationship then the man feels less as a man? When a woman says, "I want a real man, not a man child that I have to babysit." Why do you think they can never meet the right one? Do they always look for… Continue reading Do you think???

A few days ago I was struggling with the fact of not knowing who I am. I've made a lot of bad choices and I've noticed that no matter what I do, I can't seem to break through them or even have a chance to be free of them. It's my own fault, I think… Continue reading Crossroads

Ever go through phases in your life when you think, "Is this it? Am I doing what I love? How did my life end up like this?" That's me on a daily basis. I swear I constantly beat myself up daily in my mind because I know better. I know I'm smart, educated, but I… Continue reading Prayers needed, guide me.

When you finally decide that it is time to end something does it get any easier? Does the fact of knowing that he will never come after you, fight for you, or want to be with you mean anything at all? I like to think when a man tells a woman that he can't give… Continue reading Finally……..

Do you ever wonder why you can attract certain kind of men, yet you can't keep the one man you want to want you back? There is nothing wrong with either of you, yet HE can't be committed to a relationship, but you can ALWAYS find a man to sleep with (not that you would).… Continue reading Why?????????????

Sitting at home binge watching my favorite TV show "Jane the Virgin" and I realized that "Jane" had "Rafael" as her support, as her inspiration for all of her writing, and he was the one who kept encouraging her to keep on with her writing. He gave her the confidence that she needed when she… Continue reading A moment in time