I was talking to my interm-General Manager today, she was telling me about this guy she's been seeing. I sat there listening to what she had to say, and it got me thinking about how men hold onto painful things and memories from past failed relationships. Women can hold onto all kinds of things, mentally,… Continue reading Differences from then to now.

When parts of your life start to come together, and you finally feel like you are of some value to yourself, is it possible for other things to fall apart? I ask because I've experienced it, way too many times to count, and it sucks! I know my destiny is mapped out for me, it… Continue reading Falling into place

I was just on Facebook and saw an old High School friend finally got engaged. I've been friends with the same group of ladies for about 20 years. We've fallen apart, but have always managed to get back together. Everyone of them have been married for years, newly married, divorced, but have kids or step… Continue reading Finally the last one…always will be 😪😪

It's 4 am, and my brain can not shut off. I'm not exactly sure why, but a part of me feels like it knows why. I know me all too well, and when things are going good in certain parts of my life, other things have to go bad or fall apart completely. It's that… Continue reading Wide Awake

I'm often asked this question by certain people, mostly are men only because they are looking for someone who will cheat with them. I tell them it's not worth it, they need to fix the issues with their wives, that is why they married them, if not then they need to figure something out and… Continue reading Cheating….is it really worth it??? 🤷🏻‍♀️😔

When someone pulls away how do you handle it? We all deal with it in different ways, mine definitely comes in as a wave of good and bad days. I'm strong one day and can say, "F him, he made his choice." or I can say, "I'd take him back in a heartbeat!" Why is… Continue reading Pulling away

Have you ever asked yourself this when it comes to men? They look at you up and down, then zone in on certain areas of your body. Now, I don't know if they "like" what they see, but they are looking, right? I often say it depends on the person. If you are comfortable with… Continue reading Staring….what are you looking at???

They say worry about being too good at something. Please take that to heart, it's something we all don't want to get at, at some point. I worry about being too good at being single and alone, only when it comes to relationships. One shouldn't have to be able to do, but in the end… Continue reading Worry

My sister is dating again, this new guy is totally a winner compared to the last one. Come to find out he was cheating on her. This new guy is mid to late forties, and just adores my sister, he works to spend time with her, and wants to get to know her, her life,… Continue reading How do others start over??

It's that time of year again, everyone will be watching so many new and old Holiday Movies that are all about love, family, friendship, and overcoming some type of past difficult situation. Good thing these people figure it out in about in an hour and thirty minute, fake town, with an impossible situation or life… Continue reading Holiday Movies