I am asking this question because I spoke with my sister after work about what it's like to date a guy who is older than I am. She normally never asks me this because after her last failed relationship she decided she was going to take a break. I asked her, "Why?"; she said, "Well… Continue reading Dating Age…is there a real number? 🤔

Do you ever think that if a woman takes control of a relationship then the man feels less as a man? When a woman says, "I want a real man, not a man child that I have to babysit." Why do you think they can never meet the right one? Do they always look for… Continue reading Do you think???

A few days ago I was struggling with the fact of not knowing who I am. I've made a lot of bad choices and I've noticed that no matter what I do, I can't seem to break through them or even have a chance to be free of them. It's my own fault, I think… Continue reading Crossroads

Ever go through phases in your life when you think, "Is this it? Am I doing what I love? How did my life end up like this?" That's me on a daily basis. I swear I constantly beat myself up daily in my mind because I know better. I know I'm smart, educated, but I… Continue reading Prayers needed, guide me.

When you finally decide that it is time to end something does it get any easier? Does the fact of knowing that he will never come after you, fight for you, or want to be with you mean anything at all? I like to think when a man tells a woman that he can't give… Continue reading Finally……..

Do you ever wonder why you can attract certain kind of men, yet you can't keep the one man you want to want you back? There is nothing wrong with either of you, yet HE can't be committed to a relationship, but you can ALWAYS find a man to sleep with (not that you would).… Continue reading Why?????????????

Sitting at home binge watching my favorite TV show "Jane the Virgin" and I realized that "Jane" had "Rafael" as her support, as her inspiration for all of her writing, and he was the one who kept encouraging her to keep on with her writing. He gave her the confidence that she needed when she… Continue reading A moment in time

That old saying, "Seasons Change." Well guess that works in the possibly of understanding life and relationships. We work, go to bed, and wake up the next morning and do it all over again. If we have the life that makes us happy, brings us joy, and fulfillment then we've reached a professional peak. If… Continue reading Changing Seasons

You know that moment comes along in your heart and in your mind that it's time to let go of someone who makes it evident that you are irrelevant to them. There have been emotional steps that one has to walk through, so many ups and downs within myself with no major support shoulder to… Continue reading Letting you go….finally

Ever wonder if it's worth it to hold onto hope? Ever want to throw your hands up to life and say, "Screw it I am done!", as you are screaming at the top of your lungs wondering why you want to hold on to any of it? When I left the dating sites I seriously… Continue reading Hope or Hopeless