When you finally decide that it is time to end something does it get any easier? Does the fact of knowing that he will never come after you, fight for you, or want to be with you mean anything at all? I like to think when a man tells a woman that he can't give… Continue reading Finally……..
Do you ever wonder why you can attract certain kind of men, yet you can't keep the one man you want to want you back? There is nothing wrong with either of you, yet HE can't be committed to a relationship, but you can ALWAYS find a man to sleep with (not that you would).… Continue reading Why?????????????
Sitting at home binge watching my favorite TV show "Jane the Virgin" and I realized that "Jane" had "Rafael" as her support, as her inspiration for all of her writing, and he was the one who kept encouraging her to keep on with her writing. He gave her the confidence that she needed when she… Continue reading A moment in time
That old saying, "Seasons Change." Well guess that works in the possibly of understanding life and relationships. We work, go to bed, and wake up the next morning and do it all over again. If we have the life that makes us happy, brings us joy, and fulfillment then we've reached a professional peak. If… Continue reading Changing Seasons
You know that moment comes along in your heart and in your mind that it's time to let go of someone who makes it evident that you are irrelevant to them. There have been emotional steps that one has to walk through, so many ups and downs within myself with no major support shoulder to… Continue reading Letting you go….finally
Ever wonder if it's worth it to hold onto hope? Ever want to throw your hands up to life and say, "Screw it I am done!", as you are screaming at the top of your lungs wondering why you want to hold on to any of it? When I left the dating sites I seriously… Continue reading Hope or Hopeless
Why is it so hard to find someone who is thoughtful? If you have someone in your life, you know they are going through something, how hard is it to pick up the phone and check on them? Women do this all the time with their friends, but when it comes to couples, f'ck buddies,… Continue reading Searching for Thoughtfulness
Is is possible to date someone who has mental health issues? I'd like to say yes, just if the person is upfront and honest with you. I believe I told ex #3 that I know I'm crazy, but not crazy enough to slash tires or destroy property. It's more of just too much crap in… Continue reading Dating and Mental Health
When you hit the wall of life it's a major brick wall. It has steel and barbed wire around it, it constantly cuts you, and makes you try harder to push through it. Yeah that me, that's my current situation. Friday I hit the wall so hard that I woke up crying, drove to work… Continue reading The pain is real
When men do it, it's no big deal, yet when women do it, is causes a problem. Why is that? Do men think they are the only ones who can use someone for sex? Why do some men get emotional or act like total jerks? Last time I checked if you are not in a… Continue reading Just sex…no emotions