I was talking to a few friends, and of course my sisters about the fact that I ended a three year relationship. They are all so proud of me because they know that all I've ever wanted from a guy is his time, his love, and his attention. My sisters and friends think I need… Continue reading Relationship Definition: good vs bad.

When you end a relationship do you ever wonder if that person feels the loss of you? Do they think they could have done better than what they were doing? Should they put up a fight? I'm laying in bed half asleep right now, and honestly why am I worried about it? If a man… Continue reading Wonder

Here I go again alone in this life. Then again I'm not really alone, am I? I've got work, my Nonprofit work, Church, Friends and Family. I'm alone in the sense that I don't have someone to share my life with. Isn't that something we all want to obtain? I don't mind being single, it's… Continue reading Single, New Chapter, and some SERIOUS realizations.

Is it possible to have fear of who you really are on the inside? Do you take time to really do a deep dig inside your heart and head? I am totally guilty of living inside my head a bit too much. I know it is a bad habit, I know it causes me to… Continue reading Don’t fear your reality

Have you ever had to deal with being jealous about people? Couples? Love? Relationships? Overall life? I learned early on to never be jealous of anyone or anything they have, but I am human so I fail in certain areas of my life. I know I don't have the career I want, living on my… Continue reading Jealousy….new concept

Do you wish you can take time outs in life? I would love to get a chance to redo a few things, make better choices. Also tell myself that some people are temporary, and some are permanent. When you decide to take a time out from Love, you remove yourself from the ideas of what… Continue reading Time Out

When it comes to relationships and life, have you figured out that one thing that you are missing? Have you taken the opportunity to realize what it is? Do you know how to look inside yourself to figure that out? I am so glad that I took the time to figure out who I am,… Continue reading One thing

When you see other people no matter who they are, everyone around you seems to have zero difficulties finding someone to fall in love with. I honestly try not to get jealous of those who I see in relationships, getting engaged, or even getting married. I look at all the straight, gay, transgender people who… Continue reading When all you want is love

What makes someone want to try a relationship out again after so many have failed? Is there a light that goes off in the brain? The weight of what's gone is now off their shoulders or maybe they've realized that things will never change unless they make the change within themselves. Every person is different,… Continue reading Trying Again

What do you do when you've been in this odd "relationship" with someone who knows you want certain things out of him, but you keep going back. Apart from calling this woman desperate, or an idiot. Maybe think that she's just tired of the battle and just sometimes need something in her life. Then again,… Continue reading When you have no fight left