So this saying has been going through my head for a while. It's something I never thought I'd ever see myself doing ever again....until recently. When you re-evaluate your past whatever it was, you realize that it wasn't in anyway an actual relationship of where we would go out on dates, no phone calls, text… Continue reading FWB = Friends with Benefits

So I've heard this phrase so many times in my life that I've lost count and also lost all forms of emotions to it. The idea of someone saying that basically is a huge cop-out because they are running away, not mentally ready for a grown up relationship, or still had the emotional age of… Continue reading My favorite breakup phrase: “It’s me, not you.”

Do you think it's possible for someone to truly not know themselves? I often wonder if it's possible for someone to think they know themselves, but in all reality they have no clue of who they are, or what they are all about. Is it possible for them to only know 40% of what they… Continue reading Is it possible??

What do you do when you know a lover sees everything you are going through? Do you ignore it, send him a message, or what? I'm completely confused as to what to do because I know it's time to move on, let it all go, because if a man really wants a woman he would… Continue reading You see me….

We often say what we want in a relationship, we say we will put up with this, and that, and we will never put up with this....fill in the blanks yourself. I've let myself down in this area. I know I am a strong woman, but I have my issues. I've never once denied it… Continue reading Drawing that Line

What do you do when you have lost all the fight you had for someone? If you tried over and over again to show that person that you love them, that yes you are a mess, but life together could still be better than what it has been apart. You know in the deepest part… Continue reading When fighting is over

We've all been there, we meet someone new, different, exciting! We walk into a relationship so hopeful never really knowing what to expect, but hopefully this person will be different from the last mess you were in. You take the relationship day to day because deep down you don't have a lot of luck when… Continue reading Moving from Disappointment

I wonder if it is really possible for a good relationship to work when one person suffers from any type of Mental or Emotional Health issues. Can it cause strain on the relationship because one has these issues and the other doesn't? Does it cause a total divide at the core of who they are… Continue reading Mental, Emotional Health and Relationships….can they really work?

Does it ever get tiresome when you go through life, working hard, you know who you are and what you are all about, but the instant someone gives you attention, your brain and ability to form a coherent word goes completely out the window. The idea that you've worked so hard to built that wall… Continue reading Playing the fool