Do you know who you are? I mean truly know who you are. What you stand for? What you will or will not accept in your daily life? I ask these questions because we know and understand them in our daily life, especially in our careers and education, but when it comes to relationships of… Continue reading Who are you?
Photo by Ivan Samkov on Pexels.com Sitting in my therapy session on Tuesday night it was evident that I have no desire to ever be in a relationship ever again. I said it because it is how I feel. My life is so crazy that trying to date, or attempt dating in my current situation… Continue reading I don’t ever want to fall in Love
"Elsa Dutton" from 1883 I have been watching a new show on Paramount Plus called 1883. This story is the story of how the Dutton Family began from Yellowstone. The whole series is so beautiful and fantastic. I recommend you watch both shows. The reason why I am writing this is particular post because I… Continue reading Redefining Love. New Eyes
How do you know when you've found happiness? When do you realize that this is the life you have been working hard waiting for? Is it possible to find happiness when all you've ever known is pain and heartache? I ask these questions because honestly I am dealing with a lot of heartache while I'm… Continue reading Sadness to Happiness. Is it possible?
Let's remember It is the end of January and we have survived the start of "cupping" season. If you are not aware of that term means, please allow me to explain. When you are trying to find a love match during the holidays so your family doesn't think you are going to end up alone… Continue reading Countdown to Valentines Day
When does this feeling change? How does one start to feel worthy? Worthy of their lives, worthy of their family, friends, and worthy of finding love? I’ve seen too many times where I beat myself up in so many ways. The goal has been to stop beating myself up over and over again for things… Continue reading Wanting to feel worthy
Understanding how it began This year will be a year of reflection and real heart realizations that must happen. I often wonder where, how, and why my heartbreak began. It took some time, but it truly goes back to my parents. Please understand I am not blaming them for a crappy childhood, but I put… Continue reading Original Heartbreak
Accepting life’s destiny Now that we have said “Goodbye” to 2021, we now wrap our minds around this New Year of 2022 and all the possibilities that it can bring. Unfortunately, for many of us we have learned these past few years that we need to walk into this year with caution and a sense… Continue reading 2021 Gone…Now 2022
Outsiders not needed, just us doing it our way I always write about wanting to be in love and be in a relationship, but in my own way. I am wondering if it’s even possible. I recently read an article, “We’ve been together 23 years and never lived together. Here’s why it works.” By Sharon… Continue reading My Relationship Goals
I look at my life and often wonder do I really know what love is? What real love is? I know we often talk about that, "Can't eat, can't sleep, world series" kind of feeling that was described in a movie once, but when you watch movies, read books, and see other couples around you… Continue reading Looking for Love…What is it?