I had an "A-ha" moment tonight when I was talking to my sister. I asked her, "Sis, do you think I am paying some form of penance because of my parents?" She looked at me wondering what I meant. "You know my parents didn't love each other like two people should when getting married and… Continue reading Connecting the Dots

When your single, do you often wonder what it takes for the idea to let yourself know that you are ready to get back out there and start dating? This time really make sure that you are following the standards that you've constantly written out for yourself or what you tell your girlfriends what they… Continue reading What does it take?

When you first start dating someone there is so much fun that happens between the two of you, lots of good playing around to just make each other laugh, smile, sneak a kiss, or something. When it all goes away, what now? I miss those days of when I was in a relationship, the guy… Continue reading Relationship Playfulness

When ending a relationship you have to go through those moments of relief, guilt, pain, and heartache. The biggest one I go through is regret. It isn't regretting the relationship or the person, it's just regretting the fact that you have come to rely on them for things that you know deep down that you… Continue reading When things need to hurt for a little.

I was talking to a few friends, and of course my sisters about the fact that I ended a three year relationship. They are all so proud of me because they know that all I've ever wanted from a guy is his time, his love, and his attention. My sisters and friends think I need… Continue reading Relationship Definition: good vs bad.

When you end a relationship do you ever wonder if that person feels the loss of you? Do they think they could have done better than what they were doing? Should they put up a fight? I'm laying in bed half asleep right now, and honestly why am I worried about it? If a man… Continue reading Wonder

Here I go again alone in this life. Then again I'm not really alone, am I? I've got work, my Nonprofit work, Church, Friends and Family. I'm alone in the sense that I don't have someone to share my life with. Isn't that something we all want to obtain? I don't mind being single, it's… Continue reading Single, New Chapter, and some SERIOUS realizations.

Is it possible to have fear of who you really are on the inside? Do you take time to really do a deep dig inside your heart and head? I am totally guilty of living inside my head a bit too much. I know it is a bad habit, I know it causes me to… Continue reading Don’t fear your reality

Have you ever had to deal with being jealous about people? Couples? Love? Relationships? Overall life? I learned early on to never be jealous of anyone or anything they have, but I am human so I fail in certain areas of my life. I know I don't have the career I want, living on my… Continue reading Jealousy….new concept

Do you wish you can take time outs in life? I would love to get a chance to redo a few things, make better choices. Also tell myself that some people are temporary, and some are permanent. When you decide to take a time out from Love, you remove yourself from the ideas of what… Continue reading Time Out