Real Life · Relationships

Pro Single Affirmations

Do you ever go on other sites and check out their positive boards and postings to make yourself feel better about your life? Yes, I am referring to Pinterest. They have the most amazing things on their site. Trust me I’ve planned my dream life from that site.

Anyway as I navigate my daily life in the Education industry, and also realizing that I am going to be single for the rest of my life apparently. It’s okay, I am going to be okay. I know I sound like I will not, but honestly I really have no choice no matter what I do to change myself for me. I think it’s because I don’t fit what men want, but then again I never truly believe it. They just don’t want me.

What I love about Pinterest and those other sites out there that tell you, “It’s okay to be single.” or “This is the time to figure out who you are.” I honestly see these and think, “Really? Are you serious?” I know I used my last breakup from 2012 to teach myself all about myself and to learn what I don’t want and what I do want. Trust me it took a long time to realize certain things about myself, but it also took me even longer to realize what I want to do for the rest of my life.

What do you guys think? Am I making a bigger deal out of those things? I swear I learn nothing from them. I think it’s because I’m so used to be let down by men and also my relationships ending.