Do you ever wonder why love or the idea of love always seems to come in at the wrong time? I mean your so focused on your life, and making sure that it keeps moving that when you meet someone the moment you least expect it, the timing in it is sooooooooo unbelievably bad.
Okay maybe it’s just me. I don’t think so because we all go through moments when we think we’ve got our lives figured out and it’s moving along, but then a monkey wrench gets thrown in there to remind you, “Hey! Wake the hell up! Your missing out on what if’s! Yeah I love those moments. Makes me feel like I’ve definitely missed out on a lot, but at the same time reminds me why I stay closed off.
The worst part about all of it is when you feel like you’ve met the right person, and you know that they are, but the universe shows you that because your life is a total sh*t show and you can’t seem to hold anything together, well maybe just maybe being in love isn’t the right time for you. Yeah, I get that all the time.
Do you think that you should let that person go, give them their freedom, hold onto yours, move on with your life, but keep lighting that candle letting them know, “Hey, I know I left. I wasn’t getting what I deserve and what I know you can give, but my life is finally together, and when your ready let me know.” Is that desperate or weakness?
I’d love to know everyone’s opinions on that because honestly I feel like I think I have things working out for me, then something happens. It’s no one’s fault (okay my fault) but it’s like life is falling apart all around you, let’s add a failed relationship on top of all of that. Makes you second guess everything you think your life is all about.
You guys tell me, do you think love sometimes has the worst timing or is it how life works out? Will it ever happen when both things love & time are buddies and work together to make two people happy. Strange concept I know, but it’s how my brain works.
Could two people find their way back to each other after life’s dust finally settles? Is it possible that the love is still there? Could it be better and stronger than before?