Picture this, two consenting adults who aren’t sure what they want from each other decide to just jump through the mess of getting to know someone, likes, dislikes, and all that emotional crap to get right down to the good stuff. The sex, well you hope the sex is great because nothing like all of it being a total disappointment.
Yet when you are around these two people you as someone who watches them can see the real connection that they have, you can feel their sexual chemistry and even can’t understand why they deny everything they are.
So here is where I am going with all of this. Since I’ve had a lot of time on my hands I’ve realized that two people who are “mature” (sometimes), and just have what they have. Can emotions be put aside? What if one develops them, how do you shut those down?
Is it possible to keep all of that in check? I know you’re smacking your head letting me know, “No, you stupid girl. Emotions always get the best of us.” Why do we let it. I mean why can’t we just go, have sex with someone, have some laughs, and then leave and call it a night.
What happens when one person is a little bit kinkier than the other? How does it then maintain the “casual” aspect? Do you think you can manage that side of someone who is supposed to be just a casual individual?
You tell me why casual can’t just stay casual? Let me know what you guys think. I’m all about it for the moment because honestly with how crazy my life is at the moment I can’t do anything more complicated than an actual relationship. I’d rather have fun with someone who enjoy’s conversations and great sex, versus trying to give someone my full attention at the moment.
Maybe that is why I’m willing to wait for things to work out until after I’ve got specific areas of my life organized and calmed down.
Is it wrong to think like that?