I’m wondering if someone can answer this question for me. I often wonder why men do not mature as they get older. I know they experience different kinds of “maturity” but as they get older do they reverse backwards?
Women we grow up way too fast. The minute our breasts come in, then our monthly “friend/demon” arrives we are seen differently by boys. We have to protect ourselves in ways that we didn’t six months before. We have to think like a man, but act like a lady all at the same time. I mean some ladies are Chola’s or Ghetto AF, and honestly more power to y’all with that. Y’all are stronger than I am.
Back to the topic at hand. Why do men make maturity so difficult? Why do they constantly think with their little brain 99.99999% of the time when they are in the workforce they think with their big brain….wait, nope it’s only 1/2 the time they use their big brain. Why is that?
I get told by so many Gay men that my dating life is a DISASTER! One guy told me, “Honey just let it go, hold onto those fabulous breasts and live life.” I looked at him and was like, “WTFORK man!” Then he went on to explain that straight men just lack that ability to think, their little friend does 99.999999% of the thinking for them no matter what it is. When it comes to women it just depends if they are in heat, not the female.
I just looked at him, couldn’t really process everything, and yet it makes sense. Men go on the prowl for something when it suits them. They make women a priority when their life starts to get checked off a list! He reminded me “Midlife Crisis Men” my mouth dropped.
Think about it for a moment, they grow up, things get checked off at some point in their lives, then things change. They make a new list, and check off new things all the while keeping their old list around. Doesn’t sound like they want to ever grow up, what do they call that???? Oh yeah the Peter Pan complex!