Just like the song Selena made famous after her death do you think you could dream up or dream about your ultimate life partner? If I look back through the years I thought I knew what I wanted, but in reality I have no clue. I’m up one day, down the next. Have you truly thought about what you wanted or “dreamed” of in someone?
I used to dream of someone who was there, who loved me for all my faults, just as I would love him for his, but now as time as moved on I’ve realized that I love my space, I love my work, do I want something better? Heck yes, something with health insurance at least!
My dreams of a partner would be that he just wants me, that he enjoys my random conversation, and that we have amazing sex! It’s so important on that last one, lol! Yet also that he doesn’t mind cuddling, especially cold nights.
Now as I get closer and closer to my 40’s I guess my ideas have changed….not that much, but somethings are so different than what they were in my 20’s. Do you know? Have you thought about what you’ve dreamed of when it comes to the right person in your life?
I remind myself that I just want to be seen, to be appreciated, to be heard. I am clingy but only in private, but I do expect him to “own” me in a way I’ve never had before, THAT would be AWESOME!!! I guess just wanted would be nice. That’s something that would make me the happiest woman in the world.
Yet I just need a quiet space as well. To just free my mind and be in silence. How about you? What do you think?