Real Life · Relationships

Greener Side

Do you really know what you want in a partner? What about a relationship? Is this something that you’ve really sat down, had a glass of good wine or beer and made a list of things just for yourself?

We often say, “The grass isn’t always greener on the other side.” but what is that side? What if it is? What if you actually stop what you are doing, take stock as to who is really in your life, and see what they bring to your life.

If that person brings you laughter, enjoys your company, enjoys having sex with you, and just enjoys you as an overall person, isn’t that enough for you? Do you need more? What are you truly looking for? Does money have to be the root of everything? Take it from me, it may bring some minor relief, but it doesn’t bring overall joy.

What will it take for someone to realize that the person in front of them. What if the person who’s been there the entire time is the right one for you, have you ever thought about that? I often wonder if someone truly sits back and realizes that the person who’s accepted them for who they are, what they bring to the table, and how comfortable they are with them. Does any of that play a factor? I mean you were attracted to that person for a reason, right?

You tell me what you think, is the grass really all that greener on the other side? Does the right person come into your life for just a moment/season, that can help you heal from old wounds so they better prepare you for someone greater or is the right person right in front of you, but you just can’t see it?

Please let me know what you think.