Have you ever done online dating? Has it been successful? Was it a total failure?
Why is that? Why does it feel like so many men out there are nothing but scammers? Is it always like that?
I often wonder if I am reaching for something that isn’t real? Would it be easier to have a f*k buddy instead of having a relationship? I know I’m asking a lot of questions, but I am trying to get out there, but I am facing a lot of guys who do not live here in Kansas City, or no where near my area. They all live out of state, or are from another part of the Country.
What are your red flags? I have a few. I am such a grammar and punctuation snob, if their spelling is off, or even their sentences it gives me pause. If they ask for money, or money cards, I stop talking to them. If they declare their undying love for me or talk about marriage, then I walk away completely.
I honestly don’t think I’m doing this whole “dating” thing right. Maybe I should let people set me up, or just do without. What do you think?
This is something that has been going through my mind because at this time I’m talking to three different guys, and well they all seem too good to be true. I am beyond skeptical about different things. I probably need to stop, but then again maybe its just showing me that I need to just leave well enough alone.
We all go through moments when we wish we had someone in our lives, but then again we are thankful that we are alone. What do you think? I have my ups and downs, I have my moments where I love the idea of being with someone, I miss having someone to go out with, spend time with, things like that, but then again I love, love, love having my alone time as well. That is probably why I don’t want to live with anyone. I am so looking forward to being by myself.
Does anyone know what I mean? I’m not a needy person, but I do want to be able to rely on someone at certain points of my life. Does that make sense or does it sound crazy?
Thoughts and Views from Kansas 🌻 