What’s it going to take?

Ever notice how some people get scared out of their minds over the idea of what commitment could be?

What do you think it would take for a man or a woman to realize that being committed to someone by making it known that they are a couple or maybe getting married? Does marriage have to be the final form of commitment? Can it be a real understanding of what each other want?

My level of commitment I am in search of is, letting me and the world know we are together. I meet your parents and kids (if there are any), we agree to be together exclusively, you attend church with me. As Dolly Parton once said, “Oh honey, God don’t care what church you go to, just as long as you go.”

I mean there are other requirements that I ask for, food, desserts and great sex! I mean a woman has to have standards. What about you? Do you have commitment standards and or requirements? Does it all have to end in marriage for you?

I think relationships should be fun between two people because life is hard enough, why complicate that part of your life?

Now, to get to the next phase of commitment life, what do you think it will take for someone to give it a chance when they have had failures in past relationships? Those failures could be divorce, cheating, lies, financial issues, and more. I swear the list of relationship failures are as long as the hotel I work at, and it has 4 floors!

Does it take patience on one side to show that person that they are willing to make the sacrifice knowing that he/she can break the most sacred part of you…your heart. Do you walk away from all of it? Do you stick around? I’m a stick around, fight for him, beat him over the head with whatever I have until he understands that I am that kind of lady who will fight for him, for the first time in my life I am looking at a man worth fighting for.

Let me know what you think.