Do you deal with guys messaging you online via Facebook or Instagram? I do, and honestly I find it a bit annoying because I could be in the middle of working, eating, working out, or sleeping and they want to have a conversation with me at 2 or 3 am!
How do they find you? What’s the story they give you for being single? I’d love to know because each one of them tell me their life story. It comes off super sad, but when you hear the same thing over and over again it gets tiresome.
The story I get is….they are single because their wife died 2 or 3 years ago in some tragic way. I feel bad for them the first time but again when I’ve heard it so many times you start to get numb and you try your hardest to be nice, but after a while I can’t. I just can’t do it anymore.
My relationship life has the worst track record ever! I think I may have found a good guy, one better than the last one, but it never works out that way. I’ve realized that maybe men can’t hang. They come off strong, but when they get to know me for some reason they just can’t hang.
I need a man who has a backbone, one who is strong enough to put up with me, but include me in their life! We can make our relationship what we want but I need him to come to church with me, want to be included in my messy life as well. Knowing it’s not perfect, there are a million cracks, but is willing to be strong enough to hold onto me and give me the one thing I want more than anything….ATTENTION!!!!!!
I’m at a loss when it comes to dating, no one is perfect at it, but when you hit a level of intimacy with someone you would think it would be better, but no. Men all end up being the same.
Sad, so very sad. No wonder women become so jaded by everything. I’m taking a seriously long break from love, it’s done nothing for me, but bring me pain and heartache. It’s not what I’ve ever wanted in this life, but it seems to be just my luck.
Thoughts and Views from Kansas 🌻 