Sitting here I realized that we all love to be spoiled by our partners in some way. Everyone is different. Do you know what you crave? I know what I do, it’s attention! I crave attention!!!!
Here is why, it’s free, it doesn’t have to be expensive, it’s a mental connection, and it’s something two people can do and have fun.
To me spending time with someone defines who you are as a couple. It doesn’t have to be an all out thing. It could be two people sitting on the couch, laughing, talking, whatever you want to do, because you love spending time together.
How do you deal with emotional reminders in your relationships? Maybe something that is make or break for you? How do you make sure your partner feels loved, supported, and confident that the two of you are going to be okay?
I know I suffer from a lot of self doubt, and insecurities when it comes to men in my life. It all stems from fears that have been put in me since I was a little girl. Knowing your father has walked away from you, doesn’t ever consider you his child, the love your supposed to have with the man who is supposed to be the main man in your life isn’t even real, you start to question things about yourself….it really does start at childhood!
I don’t like to push myself onto anyone. I will never force him to be anything less than who he is (my special guy). I know he has a life, he has other things he does, that is why I don’t bother him. Unfortunately my chick brain takes over with my common sense brain and well that is when the issues start within myself. It’s the never ending internal fight for one side to gain control over the other.
How do you deal with emotional fears? Emotional issues? Then that horrible emotional self doubt?
Let me know.