They say worry about being too good at something. Please take that to heart, it’s something we all don’t want to get at, at some point.
I worry about being too good at being single and alone, only when it comes to relationships. One shouldn’t have to be able to do, but in the end a lot of us do.
I’m not worried about “starting over” at being single, it’s definitely something I am good at. I still need to learn how NOT to get attached to someone, because just like everyone in my life (especially men) they end up leaving me, or something.
I’m not afraid of being alone for the rest of my life, I seriously was hoping not to be, but I strongly believe that when you have given love a chance 3 different times, and each one fails, then you are done.
Sometimes I think men like to use the, “It’s not you, it’s me.” Kind of breakup line to avoid telling you that they are intimidated by you in some fashion, or they think that you are not good enough for them in some level.
I can’t do that or be like that to guys, if I want something to be over with I’ll tell you or I’ll totally ignore you, because 9 time out of 10 he is doing the exact same thing to me.
I know I’m not going to adopt anymore pets! After my cat Oscar goes, that is it I am done! Having my cat keeps me from feeling completely lonely, but it’s not the same.
How about you? Do you worry about being too good at something? How do you handle it?