So I guess I am great at being a booty call instead of being a girlfriend. The realization came to my face last night and today. I mean we as women always want to be great at sex with someone we are with, however we hope that the person we are sharing our most intimate parts of ourselves that we could have a real relationship so we can always have sex anytime we want.
Looking back at everything it was right there, I knew it in my mind, I knew it in my heart, but because I was so in love with him I looked past it. How does someone look at themselves in the mirror or sleep at night knowing they are stringing someone along, especially when the rules are or were never set?!
I can say I am guilty of having a few booty calls, however I was mature enough to let the guy know that, that is all I wanted. Then again I was in my early to mid twenties. After a while I got over it and ended it. That was roughly around the time I entered into a messed up relationship as well.
Now, answer me this, does Phone sex count as a booty call? It is something fun to do with your partner, but it is something between two people who are a couple.
Apparently it is difficult to establish an actual relationship with someone who wants to be with your body parts. My thought is, why wouldn’t you want to be with someone as much as you can especially if the sex is that good? They can learn to be a great partner with you.
I know I’ve based a lot of relationships on physical connection, because that is just as important as having a little spark of mental attraction. Having a great relationship, but no physical attraction is so very bad, and makes the bedroom activities difficult to deal with.
What do you think?
Thoughts and Views from Kansas 🌻 