Do you think it’s wrong for men and women to be friends?
I do believe that men and women can be friends without all the mess and complications. I see myself being friends to guys I work with. I get along with all of them, full time and part time jobs, but that doesn’t mean I want to sleep with any of them either.
I do hang out with one from my full time job because he’s such a lost soul. He needs a friendly ear, besides I am pretty sure he has a type and I am not it. I am no size 6 or skinny like that. He’s a good guy who has seriously lost his way. It happens to all of us. My goal is to be there so I can help him figure away back to God, and really fixing his life.
Do you think that is wrong of me? I’m happy, sad, angry, and at times often hurt when I think of my current situation. Why is it so hard for a man to understand that I just want to spend time with him!?! Broken record I know!!!! Believe me, I get it.
I say this because my heart isn’t reaching for anyone else, doesn’t want anyone else, and to be honest I’m done with men if this all blows up so horribly wrong. I know it will, it’s only a matter of time. I try to hard to mentally and emotionally prepare myself for this to happen. Guess I’m waiting for the shoe to drop, especially since it fell before.
What do you all think? I mean I can’t and won’t force fake feelings for someone I have zero connection with. I believe you have to have 3 things…Spiritual, Emotional & Physical connection for a relationship to even work. Yes, currently the Mr. No. 3 are 2 out of 3, but he’s getting there, that’s all I can ask for. No major commitment, but just being himself and wanting me is all I ask for. The other guy, well there is that feeling of “big sister” gotta guide him in some ways. I know my life has its moments of total 100% crap, but that doesn’t mean I don’t fall to my knees and pray to God daily for all the good and bad….he doesn’t even believe!!!! I think that’s where I am with him, just trying to guide him back to God, maybe he can meet a nice girl at church and she can give him what he wants.
Is that horrible of me???