Do you ever feel like you pick the wrong person to date?
I can say yes and no to this, because I’ve been fortunate enough to date the bad, horrible kind of guy to the absolutely amazing kind of guy.
I work with a few guys at my part time job, we all are around the same age and we laugh about the same crap. It’s the best thing, but I was talking to one of the guys and he has informed me that IF I ever get back out there he will start vetting the guys. I started laughing, he was being serious because he pointed out to me that none of my relationships last, or I get left at the alter, or I get cheated on.
I tell you what I wanted to crawl out to the street and have a car hit me, but I just gave him half a smile and laughed about it.
If you think about it, do you pick the wrong person? I know I’m not so great at it, but I figure I’m 2 bad relationships to 1 good one. I mean that isn’t a bad ratio when you think about it, right? Hey I’m trying to stay optimistic here.
I told him that I am done, no more dating. That was when we moved to the topic of sex. I told him I lived without it before and I will do it again. I told him if I feel like the next guy and I will have great sexual attraction then we will see, but if not then I’m gonna walk away. I don’t know about you, but you attraction at the start of a relationship is important in so many ways. Great conversations, humor, communication, and sex.
What do you look for? Let me know, also when do you realize that you are dating the wrong person? What are the flags you look for?