Ever wonder if it's worth it to hold onto hope? Ever want to throw your hands up to life and say, "Screw it I am done!", as you are screaming at the top of your lungs wondering why you want to hold on to any of it? When I left the dating sites I seriously… Continue reading Hope or Hopeless
Searching for Thoughtfulness
Why is it so hard to find someone who is thoughtful? If you have someone in your life, you know they are going through something, how hard is it to pick up the phone and check on them? Women do this all the time with their friends, but when it comes to couples, f'ck buddies,… Continue reading Searching for Thoughtfulness
Dating and Mental Health
Is is possible to date someone who has mental health issues? I'd like to say yes, just if the person is upfront and honest with you. I believe I told ex #3 that I know I'm crazy, but not crazy enough to slash tires or destroy property. It's more of just too much crap in… Continue reading Dating and Mental Health
The pain is real
When you hit the wall of life it's a major brick wall. It has steel and barbed wire around it, it constantly cuts you, and makes you try harder to push through it. Yeah that me, that's my current situation. Friday I hit the wall so hard that I woke up crying, drove to work… Continue reading The pain is real
Just sex…no emotions
When men do it, it's no big deal, yet when women do it, is causes a problem. Why is that? Do men think they are the only ones who can use someone for sex? Why do some men get emotional or act like total jerks? Last time I checked if you are not in a… Continue reading Just sex…no emotions
Interested???
If you have not realized I do a lot of studying people and their behaviors when it comes to trying to get with someone. Some have it down, they know you need to "Market" yourself to basically "Promote" your interest in the other person. That way you get to judge if someone is interested in… Continue reading Interested???
Who’s in Charge?
Are you in a relationship where you have to ask this question? I ask this because knowing that I am not, I've often wondered how couples decide who will be the "Dominate" while the other is the "Submissive", I am using terms people are familiar with. Do you allow your other half decide certain things… Continue reading Who’s in Charge?
When things change
When you ask for honesty, I give it to you, yet for some reason you throw it back in my face like what I am trying to say means absolutely nothing to me or you. Ever feel like that when you are in a relationship? Yeah, we all do. The funny thing about honesty is… Continue reading When things change
Is it possible?
I often wonder if it is possible to hate your life? Thinking and over thinking of this thought, I can honestly say, "YES!" it is absolutely possible to hate your life, level of existence, and more. Sucks to say that, but to be honest when bad things constantly happen to you with a small, very… Continue reading Is it possible?
Moving Forward
Ever struggle with this concept? Yeah, me too. I mean right now not at the moment. I'm at peace with my life. Yet, for some reason my mind can't make the decision to even try to want to go out on a date with someone new. I honestly have no idea why, but for some… Continue reading Moving Forward
