Check out my podcast, Single in KC, on Anchor! https://anchor.fm/jennifer-pantoja Welcome to being able to hear my voice. Hopefully some of you guys will listen and if anyone has any questions please let me know.
When you really need to understand something and yourself. I wanted to change this blog up, change the way I write things. I feel like there are times when we really don't know ourselves enough to see that when we learn how to be alone and stop seeing it as a negative thing, then and… Continue reading Experience Single Life
Uh…excuse me!? I’ve done some serious reflection of myself and my issues when it comes to me, my life, and my mental health. I found that I’m starting to be un phased by the knowledge that I will be single for the rest of my life. I have no clue how love works, what it… Continue reading Staying Single….
How much more? You often know as you get older that you will constantly deal with some form of disappointment and heartache. The problem is sometimes you just never see it, don’t want to acknowledge it, or even at times accept it. Why do we lean or keep things in our lives that bring us… Continue reading Heartache and Disappointment
I’m sad, but happy for everyone else. I love seeing my friends happy and their lives fulfilled, but when it comes to my life and the hurt in my life it’s just something I have to bury deep in something or some where that will never see the light of day. My life is full… Continue reading Happiness and Sadness together.
I’m 40, what’s next? I’m facing my 40’s single and alone. Yes, I have family. Yes, I FINALLY have my career. Yes, I am working towards getting out of debt but where is my love story? That’s the one thing in my life that has failed to come through for me. Why is that? I… Continue reading 40, single, focused, and…..
Definitely a method to the madness We all know celebrities tend to go from one relationship to another. It’s just part of the business. No one has perfected it quiet like Ms. Jennifer Lopez. I always thought Elizabeth Taylor was OG when it came to men, but this chica has it down! Makes you wonder… Continue reading The JLo love effect
So many ways When you are in a relationship it’s different for everyone, but what I realized is I want passion, fire. I want him to want me, to see how much I love and trust him. The man I desire, I want you to want me. I know you don’t need me, but want… Continue reading Make me…
Such passion is no lie to love When you know you can love someone through their faults, but they can’t love you past theirs it tends to be a problem. It’s hard to understand how you’ve taken the time to work on yourself, but someone else can’t work on what is broken in their own… Continue reading Wanting to Love you…
Learning process I have and am learning how to keep parts of my life quiet and to myself, however I know at times I say too much because I am being honest about what I am experiencing and or what my dreams are. I never know if what I am going through could help someone… Continue reading Keeping Private…Trying