When does this feeling change? How does one start to feel worthy? Worthy of their lives, worthy of their family, friends, and worthy of finding love? I’ve seen too many times where I beat myself up in so many ways. The goal has been to stop beating myself up over and over again for things… Continue reading Wanting to feel worthy
Original Heartbreak
Understanding how it began This year will be a year of reflection and real heart realizations that must happen. I often wonder where, how, and why my heartbreak began. It took some time, but it truly goes back to my parents. Please understand I am not blaming them for a crappy childhood, but I put… Continue reading Original Heartbreak
2021 Gone…Now 2022
Accepting life’s destiny Now that we have said “Goodbye” to 2021, we now wrap our minds around this New Year of 2022 and all the possibilities that it can bring. Unfortunately, for many of us we have learned these past few years that we need to walk into this year with caution and a sense… Continue reading 2021 Gone…Now 2022
My Relationship Goals
Outsiders not needed, just us doing it our way I always write about wanting to be in love and be in a relationship, but in my own way. I am wondering if it’s even possible. I recently read an article, “We’ve been together 23 years and never lived together. Here’s why it works.” By Sharon… Continue reading My Relationship Goals
Looking for Love…What is it?
I look at my life and often wonder do I really know what love is? What real love is? I know we often talk about that, "Can't eat, can't sleep, world series" kind of feeling that was described in a movie once, but when you watch movies, read books, and see other couples around you… Continue reading Looking for Love…What is it?
Pro Single Affirmations
Do you ever go on other sites and check out their positive boards and postings to make yourself feel better about your life? Yes, I am referring to Pinterest. They have the most amazing things on their site. Trust me I’ve planned my dream life from that site. Anyway as I navigate my daily life… Continue reading Pro Single Affirmations
He’s walked away
When you know a man has walked away, you can feel it. You can sense it and honestly it was something that you knew had to come, but it still doesn't make it any easier, it makes life more complicated because this was something that you just didn't imagine happening right now, especially now when… Continue reading He’s walked away
Enough is Enough
I know I've hit a wall in my life where I am getting so frustrated with men and their constant need to flirt. I have zero problems flirting with men who are 100% single, but if you are in a relationship at the start, middle, or even towards the end, and also married please don't… Continue reading Enough is Enough
Emotional Needs
Sometimes this all one needs When you are single what is the one thing you miss? Is it knowing you have someone around, is it the adorable ways you two communicate, or is it all just about the intimacy of everything that comes with being a relationship with someone. If you have been following this… Continue reading Emotional Needs
New Podcast!
Check out my podcast, Single in KC, on Anchor! https://anchor.fm/jennifer-pantoja Welcome to being able to hear my voice. Hopefully some of you guys will listen and if anyone has any questions please let me know.
Thoughts and Views from Kansas 🌻 