When you sit and think as you observe people around you, you start to wonder what makes them special? Unique? One of a kind? Is it their strength or their weakness? We all have it, it isn't one or the other. Both sides of that live inside of us. It's up to us how we… Continue reading Strength vs Weakness, which one is best?

I often wonder if my joking or teasing you is something you like. Do you find it funny? Do you find it annoying? Tell me, my goal is to always make you smile and laugh. Your smile and laughter makes my heart skip a beat, in a good way. I love it because I don't… Continue reading Is it too much, dear?

When starting out in a new relationship you want to spend as much time together as possible, right? Do you think too much time can make a partner question the direction of the relationship or maybe start pulling away and give you the silent treatment? I often wonder about this because I've been in relationships… Continue reading How much time is too much time?

Do you believe that when a man or a woman reaches a certain age, they play that relationship fishing game? If you understand what I mean, then you are fully aware of it. If you are not allow me to explain. A relationship fishing game is: 2 adults, both are attracted to each other, one… Continue reading Play that Relationship Game. Is it worth it?

How do you let go of past failures? Do you think about them, learn from them and move on? Is every step a lesson on how to be a better person or maybe a better partner. How about being a better human being? I ask myself this question often because to be honest I've worked… Continue reading The Past…..time to move on?

We always go to someone for advice. Life, financial and even love. Most of us have zero problem giving advice we should be taking ourselves. Why is it easier to give it than to receive it? I often find myself in the middle of this situation. When I think about it, it's because I'm looking… Continue reading Advice……good or bad?

Do those feelings ever change for us? Are we ever really satisfied with the idea of feeling lonely or alone when dealing with life or a relationship? We have this desire to be with someone. This person makes us happy, laugh, enjoy those little moments that get missed when we don't pay attention to the… Continue reading Alone….Lonely….

Do you ever wonder what the right time of being with someone is the best time to move to the next step?.....Living together??? I ask because my cousin brought this up to me. I wasn't trying to make a yes statement out of the idea, but she made some valid points when we were talking.… Continue reading Too short or too long??

When starting a new relationship do you tend to go outside of your norm? Are stuck in your comfort zone? I've been willing to go outside of my comfort level at different times in my life. Each one ends up being a life lesson wrapped up in complete heartbreak and the need to kill someone.… Continue reading Past Relationships…..do we really learn our lessons?

Do you celebrate Valentine's Day? Do you plan something special for the one you love? Do you think the entire day is a waste of money??? I am often conflicted with this day. I've had so many horrible experiences with this particular "holiday". Being single is one thing, being in a relationship where the guy… Continue reading Valentine’s Day…..🤔