Do you think people stick what what's comfortable? Maybe who is comfortable in their lives? Is it someone you've loved, but have walked away for a reason? Could it be you want to keep that person in your life for other reasons? I am so very guilty of this. I keep certain people in my… Continue reading Getting too comfortable…

Just like the song Selena made famous after her death do you think you could dream up or dream about your ultimate life partner? If I look back through the years I thought I knew what I wanted, but in reality I have no clue. I'm up one day, down the next. Have you truly… Continue reading “Dreaming of You”

Do you ever wonder if you are ever ready for what it takes to truly make a relationship work? I used to tell myself I was, but as I've gotten older I've realized that I am back and forth on it. It's not easy, it's give and take, there are also a lot of compromises… Continue reading Never Ready…

Does anyone ever acknowledge that as we get older our mindset changes? Like what we once thought as must haves, years later we see it's not really necessary. I ask this because I realize as I get older (insert joke here) I don't want the same things as I once did when I was 28… Continue reading Changes as we Age

I often wonder when you are trying to be nice to someone that is somewhat special to you, how do you get them to understand that you just see them as a friend? Is it possible to do that? I try to be friendly with a lot of people, my ex's (depends on who you… Continue reading Being Nice….limits?

Here's an interesting topic of conversation, men who are bitter in their own way about things that didn't quiet workout the way they thought. Now this bitterness could be a failed relationship (breakup or divorce), employment, or maybe even their kid(s), who knows, but I wonder if Men hold onto their own level or brand… Continue reading Male Bitterness…

I was just listening to the new version of "More than Words" by Extreme, it was sung by John Legend, Kelly Clarkson, Blake Shelton & Gwen Stefani. If you've not heard it, please do it is really that good. Plus it's so funny how you get little hints of Blake & Gwen's relationship and how… Continue reading “More Than Words” is it possible?

Have you ever done online dating? Has it been successful? Was it a total failure? Why is that? Why does it feel like so many men out there are nothing but scammers? Is it always like that? I often wonder if I am reaching for something that isn't real? Would it be easier to have… Continue reading Online Dating Pro’s & Con’s

Do you ever wonder if your astrological sign is a true reflection of who you are inside? I'm a Pisces, I know I'm a daydreamer, I tend to feel everything, even when someone hides it from me. I don't take anything personally, and it takes a lot to make me angry. I know I can… Continue reading Astrology and Life