Okay, has anyone ever paid attention to how men act when a relationship ends? Ever notice how they go through their heartbreak so differently than women do? Women lean on their girlfriends, wine, chick flicks, some dang good chocolate, and their battery operated boyfriend, he never tells you no, and is always there for you… Continue reading Men in Reverse

I recently realized that I've not cried out my feelings from my most recent heartbreak. I guess I've grown accustom to so many relationships failing in my life that it just doesn't surprise me anymore. How sad is that? I do have hope that I will find love again, but I am beyond scared that… Continue reading No Tears

Do you ever feel like some people are not going to ever grow up? Like they are not trying to be the person you need or want them to be? What do you think it will take for them to realize that all you ever wanted was certain things with them? I sometimes think that… Continue reading When decisions need to be made….No more Games!

I talk about my love life (or lack there of) a lot on here. This is my personal blog, I write to help me, but really to help other people. If you like what I write please let me know, I'd love to hear from people. Follow my page as well, and search for my… Continue reading Let me be Clear

Let me explain why I say, "I want it all." It's because today I realized that I want the good and bad of a real relationship. I want to leave home knowing that I've got someone to come home to. If his job requires him to travel, then at least he'd know I'd be happy… Continue reading I want it all…

Do you think it's possible for Men to feel like they know they made a mistake when ending a relationship? Relationship Expert Matthew Hussey sent an email out this morning letting women know that men do go through moments when a relationship ends, and realize that they had someone who cared, loved, and enjoyed being… Continue reading A little Grey

I had an "A-ha" moment tonight when I was talking to my sister. I asked her, "Sis, do you think I am paying some form of penance because of my parents?" She looked at me wondering what I meant. "You know my parents didn't love each other like two people should when getting married and… Continue reading Connecting the Dots

When your single, do you often wonder what it takes for the idea to let yourself know that you are ready to get back out there and start dating? This time really make sure that you are following the standards that you've constantly written out for yourself or what you tell your girlfriends what they… Continue reading What does it take?

When you first start dating someone there is so much fun that happens between the two of you, lots of good playing around to just make each other laugh, smile, sneak a kiss, or something. When it all goes away, what now? I miss those days of when I was in a relationship, the guy… Continue reading Relationship Playfulness

When ending a relationship you have to go through those moments of relief, guilt, pain, and heartache. The biggest one I go through is regret. It isn't regretting the relationship or the person, it's just regretting the fact that you have come to rely on them for things that you know deep down that you… Continue reading When things need to hurt for a little.